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Ordeal2Ideal: Reviving Struggling Marriages
We're Al and Mona, a couple who have been married for over 30 years, and we've experienced both the highs and lows of marriage. Through it all, we've learned valuable lessons about love, forgiveness, and communication, and we're ready to share them with you.
About Us: Our 30-Year Marital Journey
Our Story
We've been through it all—raising children, facing financial challenges, and experiencing periods of emotional distance. But we've also found a way to keep our love strong and resilient.
Our Expertise
We've learned how to navigate the inevitable challenges of marriage, how to communicate effectively, and how to rebuild intimacy when it's lost.
The Challenges of a Dying Marriage

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Loss of Communication
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Lack of Intimacy
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Unresolved Conflicts
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Betrayal and Trust Issues
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Growing Apart
Reconnecting with Your Spouse
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Rekindle Affection
Small gestures of love and appreciation can go a long way.
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Spend Quality Time
Plan regular date nights and make time for meaningful conversations.
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Re-learn Each Other
Take the time to understand your spouse's current needs and desires.
Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy

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Open Communication
Be honest about your feelings and needs, and listen attentively to your partner.
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Forgive Past Hurts
Holding on to anger and resentment will only damage your relationship.
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Rebuild Physical Connection
Create a safe and loving environment for physical intimacy.
Effective Communication Strategies
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Active Listening
Pay attention to your partner's words and body language, and ask clarifying questions.
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Express Yourself Clearly
Use "I" statements to communicate your feelings and needs without blaming your partner.
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Empathy and Understanding
Try to see things from your partner's perspective, even if you don't agree.
Addressing Unresolved Conflicts
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Identify the Issue
Clearly define the problem and make sure both of you are on the same page.
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Communicate Respectfully
Avoid blaming, name-calling, and attacking your partner.
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Find Solutions Together
Brainstorm ideas and compromise to find a mutually acceptable solution.
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Follow Through
Commit to the solution and work together to implement it.
Overcoming Infidelity and Betrayal
Acknowledge the Pain
Recognize the depth of the hurt and betrayal, and allow your partner to express their feelings.
Seek Professional Help
Couples therapy can provide a safe space to work through the trauma of infidelity.
Rebuild Trust Gradually
Trust is earned back through consistent actions, honesty, and transparency.
Shared Vision and Goal-Setting
Common Goals
Discuss your shared dreams and aspirations for the future, both personal and for your relationship.
Plan Together
Set realistic goals and milestones, and work together to achieve them.
Mutual Support
Be each other's biggest cheerleaders and provide encouragement along the way.
Start Your Renewal Today: Download our Mini-Course!
Ready to make a change? We're here to help you rebuild your marriage and create a future filled with love and happiness.
Purchase our books:

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Ordeal 2 Ideal

Ordeal 2 Ideal [Roberts, Alton] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. Ordeal 2 Ideal

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The Next Right Move: Stepping Towards Success in Business, Love, and Life

Amazon.com: The Next Right Move: Stepping Towards Success in Business, Love, and Life: 9798987593196: Roberts, Al, Roberts, Mona: Books